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 Author: RebelliousBrick View Messages Posted By RebelliousBrick
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Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?
 
 Author: Saitobricks.ca View Messages Posted By Saitobricks.ca
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In General, RebelliousBrick writes:
  Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?

We all are curious to find out who stop listed us
 Author: Adjour View Messages Posted By Adjour
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In General, Saitobricks.ca writes:
  In General, RebelliousBrick writes:
  Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?

We all are curious to find out who stop listed us


Or we just know. Not hard to figure it out.

Serious note here;


I've got a massive amount of people stoplisted (like nearing 100). I don't
like to deal with headache buyers or people who take issue with me personally.
I've had IRL stalkers several, dare I say many times and they usually
are people who doxed me online. No reason to not have an extra layer of "go
away" in use.


On ebay its common to share stoplists on discord and reddit to avoid problems
and scammers. Sellers often share stoplists and that advice has always worked
for me there, so I just carried on with it here. Heck, if I'm browsing feedback
and see a problem person, on the list they go.


There's too many sellers and buyers to really worry about it.

Crystal
 Author: popsicle View Messages Posted By popsicle
 Posted: May 14, 2024 14:01
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In General, Adjour writes:
  In General, Saitobricks.ca writes:
  In General, RebelliousBrick writes:
  Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?

We all are curious to find out who stop listed us


Or we just know. Not hard to figure it out.

Serious note here;


I've got a massive amount of people stoplisted (like nearing 100). I don't
like to deal with headache buyers or people who take issue with me personally.

Really, that's your personal standard? Which am I then: Never bought from
you and although we've bumped heads here in the forum, I've never taken
issue with you "personally".

Could it be that it's actually you that "take issue" with
the 100 or so others, not the other way around? Self-reflection is not always
comfortable, I know

  I've had IRL stalkers several, dare I say many times and they usually
are people who doxed me online. No reason to not have an extra layer of "go
away" in use.


On ebay its common to share stoplists on discord and reddit to avoid problems
and scammers. Sellers often share stoplists and that advice has always worked
for me there, so I just carried on with it here. Heck, if I'm browsing feedback
and see a problem person, on the list they go.


There's too many sellers and buyers to really worry about it.

Crystal
 
 Author: Saitobricks.ca View Messages Posted By Saitobricks.ca
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In General, popsicle writes:
  In General, Adjour writes:
  In General, Saitobricks.ca writes:
  In General, RebelliousBrick writes:
  Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?

We all are curious to find out who stop listed us


Or we just know. Not hard to figure it out.

Serious note here;


I've got a massive amount of people stoplisted (like nearing 100). I don't
like to deal with headache buyers or people who take issue with me personally.

Really, that's your personal standard? Which am I then: Never bought from
you and although we've bumped heads here in the forum, I've never taken
issue with you "personally".

Could it be that it's actually you that "take issue" with
the 100 or so others, not the other way around? Self-reflection is not always
comfortable, I know

Same thing with me.
 
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In General, Saitobricks.ca writes:
  In General, popsicle writes:
  In General, Adjour writes:
  In General, Saitobricks.ca writes:
  In General, RebelliousBrick writes:
  Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?

We all are curious to find out who stop listed us


Or we just know. Not hard to figure it out.

Serious note here;


I've got a massive amount of people stoplisted (like nearing 100). I don't
like to deal with headache buyers or people who take issue with me personally.

Really, that's your personal standard? Which am I then: Never bought from
you and although we've bumped heads here in the forum, I've never taken
issue with you "personally".

Could it be that it's actually you that "take issue" with
the 100 or so others, not the other way around? Self-reflection is not always
comfortable, I know

Same thing with me.


Yep.
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In General, Adjour writes:
  In General, Saitobricks.ca writes:
  In General, popsicle writes:
  In General, Adjour writes:
  In General, Saitobricks.ca writes:
  In General, RebelliousBrick writes:
  Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?

We all are curious to find out who stop listed us


Or we just know. Not hard to figure it out.

Serious note here;


I've got a massive amount of people stoplisted (like nearing 100). I don't
like to deal with headache buyers or people who take issue with me personally.

Really, that's your personal standard? Which am I then: Never bought from
you and although we've bumped heads here in the forum, I've never taken
issue with you "personally".

Could it be that it's actually you that "take issue" with
the 100 or so others, not the other way around? Self-reflection is not always
comfortable, I know

Same thing with me.


Yep.

Quick question, why?
 Author: popsicle View Messages Posted By popsicle
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In General, Saitobricks.ca writes:
  In General, Adjour writes:
  In General, Saitobricks.ca writes:
  In General, popsicle writes:
  In General, Adjour writes:
  In General, Saitobricks.ca writes:
  In General, RebelliousBrick writes:
  Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?

We all are curious to find out who stop listed us


Or we just know. Not hard to figure it out.

Serious note here;


I've got a massive amount of people stoplisted (like nearing 100). I don't
like to deal with headache buyers or people who take issue with me personally.

Really, that's your personal standard? Which am I then: Never bought from
you and although we've bumped heads here in the forum, I've never taken
issue with you "personally".

Could it be that it's actually you that "take issue" with
the 100 or so others, not the other way around? Self-reflection is not always
comfortable, I know

Same thing with me.


Yep.

Quick question, why?

What do you mean, she's clearly delineated why, to the hundred or so on her
list "I don't like to deal with headache buyers or people who take
issue with me personally" It's fairly unequivocal
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In General, popsicle writes:
  In General, Saitobricks.ca writes:
  In General, Adjour writes:
  In General, Saitobricks.ca writes:
  In General, popsicle writes:
  In General, Adjour writes:
  In General, Saitobricks.ca writes:
  In General, RebelliousBrick writes:
  Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?

We all are curious to find out who stop listed us


Or we just know. Not hard to figure it out.

Serious note here;


I've got a massive amount of people stoplisted (like nearing 100). I don't
like to deal with headache buyers or people who take issue with me personally.

Really, that's your personal standard? Which am I then: Never bought from
you and although we've bumped heads here in the forum, I've never taken
issue with you "personally".

Could it be that it's actually you that "take issue" with
the 100 or so others, not the other way around? Self-reflection is not always
comfortable, I know

Same thing with me.


Yep.

Quick question, why?

What do you mean, she's clearly delineated why, to the hundred or so on her
list "I don't like to deal with headache buyers or people who take
issue with me personally" It's fairly unequivocal

People these days, more inclined to make enemy’s because it’s easy, but not to
make friends because it takes time and understanding.😔
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In General, Saitobricks.ca writes:
  In General, popsicle writes:
  In General, Saitobricks.ca writes:
  In General, Adjour writes:
  In General, Saitobricks.ca writes:
  In General, popsicle writes:
  In General, Adjour writes:
  In General, Saitobricks.ca writes:
  In General, RebelliousBrick writes:
  Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?

We all are curious to find out who stop listed us


Or we just know. Not hard to figure it out.

Serious note here;


I've got a massive amount of people stoplisted (like nearing 100). I don't
like to deal with headache buyers or people who take issue with me personally.

Really, that's your personal standard? Which am I then: Never bought from
you and although we've bumped heads here in the forum, I've never taken
issue with you "personally".

Could it be that it's actually you that "take issue" with
the 100 or so others, not the other way around? Self-reflection is not always
comfortable, I know

Same thing with me.


Yep.

Quick question, why?

What do you mean, she's clearly delineated why, to the hundred or so on her
list "I don't like to deal with headache buyers or people who take
issue with me personally" It's fairly unequivocal

People these days, more inclined to make enemy’s because it’s easy, but not to
make friends because it takes time and understanding.😔

Insightful... Thanks
 Author: Saitobricks.ca View Messages Posted By Saitobricks.ca
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In General, popsicle writes:
  In General, Saitobricks.ca writes:
  In General, popsicle writes:
  In General, Saitobricks.ca writes:
  In General, Adjour writes:
  In General, Saitobricks.ca writes:
  In General, popsicle writes:
  In General, Adjour writes:
  In General, Saitobricks.ca writes:
  In General, RebelliousBrick writes:
  Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?

We all are curious to find out who stop listed us


Or we just know. Not hard to figure it out.

Serious note here;


I've got a massive amount of people stoplisted (like nearing 100). I don't
like to deal with headache buyers or people who take issue with me personally.

Really, that's your personal standard? Which am I then: Never bought from
you and although we've bumped heads here in the forum, I've never taken
issue with you "personally".

Could it be that it's actually you that "take issue" with
the 100 or so others, not the other way around? Self-reflection is not always
comfortable, I know

Same thing with me.


Yep.

Quick question, why?

What do you mean, she's clearly delineated why, to the hundred or so on her
list "I don't like to deal with headache buyers or people who take
issue with me personally" It's fairly unequivocal

People these days, more inclined to make enemy’s because it’s easy, but not to
make friends because it takes time and understanding.😔

Insightful... Thanks

But when you persevere, the joy and fun of the experience and time that you share
together will far surpass the experience of fighting a hundred enemies.
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In General, Saitobricks.ca writes:
  In General, popsicle writes:
  In General, Saitobricks.ca writes:
  In General, popsicle writes:
  In General, Saitobricks.ca writes:
  In General, Adjour writes:
  In General, Saitobricks.ca writes:
  In General, popsicle writes:
  In General, Adjour writes:
  In General, Saitobricks.ca writes:
  In General, RebelliousBrick writes:
  Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?

We all are curious to find out who stop listed us


Or we just know. Not hard to figure it out.

Serious note here;


I've got a massive amount of people stoplisted (like nearing 100). I don't
like to deal with headache buyers or people who take issue with me personally.

Really, that's your personal standard? Which am I then: Never bought from
you and although we've bumped heads here in the forum, I've never taken
issue with you "personally".

Could it be that it's actually you that "take issue" with
the 100 or so others, not the other way around? Self-reflection is not always
comfortable, I know

Same thing with me.


Yep.

Quick question, why?

What do you mean, she's clearly delineated why, to the hundred or so on her
list "I don't like to deal with headache buyers or people who take
issue with me personally" It's fairly unequivocal

People these days, more inclined to make enemy’s because it’s easy, but not to
make friends because it takes time and understanding.😔

Insightful... Thanks

But when you persevere, the joy and fun of the experience and time that you share
together will far surpass the experience of fighting a hundred enemies.

I suppose. But I can tell you've not "fought enemies" not in the
true sense. There is something to that which only those that have will be able
to understand. Human nature which is immutable, has dark sides. Accept it to
understand better.
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In General, popsicle writes:
  In General, Saitobricks.ca writes:
  In General, popsicle writes:
  In General, Saitobricks.ca writes:
  In General, popsicle writes:
  In General, Saitobricks.ca writes:
  In General, Adjour writes:
  In General, Saitobricks.ca writes:
  In General, popsicle writes:
  In General, Adjour writes:
  In General, Saitobricks.ca writes:
  In General, RebelliousBrick writes:
  Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?

We all are curious to find out who stop listed us


Or we just know. Not hard to figure it out.

Serious note here;


I've got a massive amount of people stoplisted (like nearing 100). I don't
like to deal with headache buyers or people who take issue with me personally.

Really, that's your personal standard? Which am I then: Never bought from
you and although we've bumped heads here in the forum, I've never taken
issue with you "personally".

Could it be that it's actually you that "take issue" with
the 100 or so others, not the other way around? Self-reflection is not always
comfortable, I know

Same thing with me.


Yep.

Quick question, why?

What do you mean, she's clearly delineated why, to the hundred or so on her
list "I don't like to deal with headache buyers or people who take
issue with me personally" It's fairly unequivocal

People these days, more inclined to make enemy’s because it’s easy, but not to
make friends because it takes time and understanding.😔

Insightful... Thanks

But when you persevere, the joy and fun of the experience and time that you share
together will far surpass the experience of fighting a hundred enemies.

I suppose. But I can tell you've not "fought enemies" not in the
true sense. There is something to that which only those that have will be able
to understand. Human nature which is immutable, has dark sides. Accept it to
understand better.

So be bad so you know what bad is?
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In General, Saitobricks.ca writes:
  In General, popsicle writes:
  In General, Saitobricks.ca writes:
  In General, popsicle writes:
  In General, Saitobricks.ca writes:
  In General, popsicle writes:
  In General, Saitobricks.ca writes:
  In General, Adjour writes:
  In General, Saitobricks.ca writes:
  In General, popsicle writes:
  In General, Adjour writes:
  In General, Saitobricks.ca writes:
  In General, RebelliousBrick writes:
  Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?

We all are curious to find out who stop listed us


Or we just know. Not hard to figure it out.

Serious note here;


I've got a massive amount of people stoplisted (like nearing 100). I don't
like to deal with headache buyers or people who take issue with me personally.

Really, that's your personal standard? Which am I then: Never bought from
you and although we've bumped heads here in the forum, I've never taken
issue with you "personally".

Could it be that it's actually you that "take issue" with
the 100 or so others, not the other way around? Self-reflection is not always
comfortable, I know

Same thing with me.


Yep.

Quick question, why?

What do you mean, she's clearly delineated why, to the hundred or so on her
list "I don't like to deal with headache buyers or people who take
issue with me personally" It's fairly unequivocal

People these days, more inclined to make enemy’s because it’s easy, but not to
make friends because it takes time and understanding.😔

Insightful... Thanks

But when you persevere, the joy and fun of the experience and time that you share
together will far surpass the experience of fighting a hundred enemies.

I suppose. But I can tell you've not "fought enemies" not in the
true sense. There is something to that which only those that have will be able
to understand. Human nature which is immutable, has dark sides. Accept it to
understand better.

So be bad so you know what bad is?

Don't be reductionistic now. No need to "be bad" to be able to accept
and by extension "understand better" the darker sides of our nature.
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In General, RebelliousBrick writes:
  Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?

Not if you are a seller yourself - if you're only a buyer then you can see
(apparently).
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In General, peregrinator writes:
  In General, RebelliousBrick writes:
  Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?

Not if you are a seller yourself - if you're only a buyer then you can see
(apparently).


Ok I’m reverting
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In General, peregrinator writes:
  In General, RebelliousBrick writes:
  Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?

Not if you are a seller yourself - if you're only a buyer then you can see
(apparently).

As only a buyer, I was surprised by this. I've never purchased anything form
these two stores and every feedback I have ever given has been professional and
positive (from what I remember).

Also, the exact same text from 2 stores - really?

Meh, i aint losing sleep over it - others will get my money
 
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In General, dkoudys writes:
  In General, peregrinator writes:
  In General, RebelliousBrick writes:
  Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?

Not if you are a seller yourself - if you're only a buyer then you can see
(apparently).

As only a buyer, I was surprised by this. I've never purchased anything form
these two stores and every feedback I have ever given has been professional and
positive (from what I remember).

Also, the exact same text from 2 stores - really?

Meh, i aint losing sleep over it - others will get my money

Unless im seeing something wrong that is the list of people YOU stop listed not
that have stop listed you
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Location:  USA, Illinois
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In General, Nubs_Select writes:
  In General, dkoudys writes:
  In General, peregrinator writes:
  In General, RebelliousBrick writes:
  Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?

Not if you are a seller yourself - if you're only a buyer then you can see
(apparently).

As only a buyer, I was surprised by this. I've never purchased anything form
these two stores and every feedback I have ever given has been professional and
positive (from what I remember).

Also, the exact same text from 2 stores - really?

Meh, i aint losing sleep over it - others will get my money

Unless im seeing something wrong that is the list of people YOU stop listed not
that have stop listed you

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dkoudys (199)

Location:  Canada, Ontario
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Store: Sparky's Store
In General, Nubs_Select writes:
  In General, dkoudys writes:
  In General, peregrinator writes:
  In General, RebelliousBrick writes:
  Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?

Not if you are a seller yourself - if you're only a buyer then you can see
(apparently).

As only a buyer, I was surprised by this. I've never purchased anything form
these two stores and every feedback I have ever given has been professional and
positive (from what I remember).

Also, the exact same text from 2 stores - really?

Meh, i aint losing sleep over it - others will get my money

Unless im seeing something wrong that is the list of people YOU stop listed not
that have stop listed you

Wow - been here so long that i mustve forgotten I did that...

Thx
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SylvainLS (46)

Location:  France, Nouvelle-Aquitaine
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In General, dkoudys writes:
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Wow - been here so long that i mustve forgotten I did that...

Thx

The confusion comes from the fact the link to see who stoplisted you is still
in My Activity for sellers… but it leads to the same page as your stoplist, with
a different parameter but it’s being ignored.
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dkoudys (199)

Location:  Canada, Ontario
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Store: Sparky's Store
In General, dkoudys writes:
  In General, Nubs_Select writes:
  In General, dkoudys writes:
  In General, peregrinator writes:
  In General, RebelliousBrick writes:
  Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?

Not if you are a seller yourself - if you're only a buyer then you can see
(apparently).

As only a buyer, I was surprised by this. I've never purchased anything form
these two stores and every feedback I have ever given has been professional and
positive (from what I remember).

Also, the exact same text from 2 stores - really?

Meh, i aint losing sleep over it - others will get my money

Unless im seeing something wrong that is the list of people YOU stop listed not
that have stop listed you

Wow - been here so long that i mustve forgotten I did that...

Thx

K, I just went thru all the feedback left for me from everyone and they're
all positive. And I found one from one of the 2 stores listed and their feedback
was very positive.

I'm starting to think I didn't add these to my blocklist, as I never
used it before and I certainly don't remember doing it.

This is odd...
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rickcraine (4)

Location:  USA, Virginia
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In General, dkoudys writes:
  In General, peregrinator writes:
  In General, RebelliousBrick writes:
  Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?

Not if you are a seller yourself - if you're only a buyer then you can see
(apparently).

As only a buyer, I was surprised by this. I've never purchased anything form
these two stores and every feedback I have ever given has been professional and
positive (from what I remember).

Also, the exact same text from 2 stores - really?

Meh, i aint losing sleep over it - others will get my money

that is YOUR stoplist...
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yorbrick (1185)

Location:  United Kingdom, England
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  As only a buyer, I was surprised by this.

You have a store, so you are a seller even if you don't sell anything.
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Adjour (2470)

Location:  USA, Tennessee
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popsicle (6666)

Location:  USA, Washington
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Store: ConstrucToys
In General, RebelliousBrick writes:
  Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.

  Is there way way to see who?

As a member with seller status, no is the short answer. "Is there way way
to see" why you care who acts in this childish manner?

If it helps you to cope, here's ours
 
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Dhobeck (35)

Location:  USA, Montana
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Store: SirIceCreamMansBrixNFigs
In General, popsicle writes:
  In General, RebelliousBrick writes:
  Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.

  Is there way way to see who?

As a member with seller status, no is the short answer. "Is there way way
to see" why you care who acts in this childish manner?

If it helps you to cope, here's ours

I just checked mine and was surprised that 3 users already have stop list me
for some reason as well. That’s 1 for every 11 feedback I have received
 
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Saitobricks.ca (37)

Location:  Canada, Ontario
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Aug 28, 2021 Contact Member Seller
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Store: Unlicensed Bricks
In General, popsicle writes:
  In General, RebelliousBrick writes:
  Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.

  Is there way way to see who?

As a member with seller status, no is the short answer. "Is there way way
to see" why you care who acts in this childish manner?

If it helps you to cope, here's ours

11!? That doesn’t seem right.

And I thought mine was a high number.
 
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RebelliousBrick (8)

Location:  Canada, Alberta
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In General, popsicle writes:
  In General, RebelliousBrick writes:
  Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.

  Is there way way to see who?

As a member with seller status, no is the short answer. "Is there way way
to see" why you care who acts in this childish manner?

If it helps you to cope, here's ours

It's not really a problem, I was just curious 😁
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kittybrickz (187)

Location:  Canada, British Columbia
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In General, popsicle writes:
  In General, RebelliousBrick writes:
  Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.

  Is there way way to see who?

As a member with seller status, no is the short answer. "Is there way way
to see" why you care who acts in this childish manner?

If it helps you to cope, here's ours

where does one find this information?
Cheers!
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Ziegelmeister (226)

Location:  USA, Ohio
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In General, kittybrickz writes:

  where does one find this information?
Cheers!

My BL My Activity
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kittybrickz (187)

Location:  Canada, British Columbia
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In General, Ziegelmeister writes:
  In General, kittybrickz writes:

  where does one find this information?
Cheers!

My BL My Activity

Thank you!
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Nubs_Select (3788)

Location:  Canada, Ontario
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Store: Nub's Select
In General, popsicle writes:
  In General, RebelliousBrick writes:
  Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.

  Is there way way to see who?

As a member with seller status, no is the short answer. "Is there way way
to see" why you care who acts in this childish manner?

If it helps you to cope, here's ours

11 for me as well! Must be a lucky number!
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1001bricks (52419)

Location:  France, Provence-Alpes-Côte d'Azur
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Store: 1001bricks
In General, popsicle writes:
  In General, RebelliousBrick writes:
  Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.

  Is there way way to see who?

As a member with seller status, no is the short answer. "Is there way way
to see" why you care who acts in this childish manner?

If it helps you to cope, here's ours

51 stop listed me

Partly due to asking for a B2B transaction without VAT.
THis should be accepted, by law - but some in Europe don't want/care/know...
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popsicle (6666)

Location:  USA, Washington
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In General, 1001bricks writes:
  In General, popsicle writes:
  In General, RebelliousBrick writes:
  Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.

  Is there way way to see who?

As a member with seller status, no is the short answer. "Is there way way
to see" why you care who acts in this childish manner?

If it helps you to cope, here's ours

51 stop listed me

Now you're making me feel inadequate, your list being longer than mine

  Partly due to asking for a B2B transaction without VAT.
THis should be accepted, by law - but some in Europe don't want/care/know...
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minifig.only (432)

Location:  Germany, Mecklenburg-Vorpommern
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Store: My Brick Stuff
In General, 1001bricks writes:
  Partly due to asking for a B2B transaction without VAT.
THis should be accepted, by law - but some in Europe don't want/care/know...

No one can be forced to do business with you (whether B2B or B2C). That's
the law and it's called freedom of contract. And the Stoplist is there to
implement this law.
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1001bricks (52419)

Location:  France, Provence-Alpes-Côte d'Azur
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Store: 1001bricks
In General, minifig.only writes:
  In General, 1001bricks writes:
  Partly due to asking for a B2B transaction without VAT.
THis should be accepted, by law - but some in Europe don't want/care/know...

No one can be forced to do business with you (whether B2B or B2C).

I agree with B2B, I don't with B2C.

At least in France, you're NOT allowed to NOT accept a private customer for
any reason
.

Apart having had already a bad experience, proven risk of loss or problem, security,
etc. - of course.


  That's the law and it's called freedom of contract. And the Stoplist is there to implement this law.

About B2B me thinks it's just abnormal (at least) and/or lazy, and all in
all not very friendly.
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Ziegelmeister (226)

Location:  USA, Ohio
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In General, RebelliousBrick writes:
  Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?

Consider it a badge of honor. I used to have 3 but I'm now down to 2 so
somebody must have changed their mind. But your comment here https://www.bricklink.com/message.asp?ID=1460105
only focuses on part of it. There are people perusing the forum that might
stop list you just because of something you said. This is where mine came from
as I was asking questions to make sure I set my store up correctly.
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RebelliousBrick (8)

Location:  Canada, Alberta
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In General, Ziegelmeister writes:
  In General, RebelliousBrick writes:
  Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?

Consider it a badge of honor. I used to have 3 but I'm now down to 2 so
somebody must have changed their mind. But your comment here https://www.bricklink.com/message.asp?ID=1460105
only focuses on part of it. There are people perusing the forum that might
stop list you just because of something you said. This is where mine came from
as I was asking questions to make sure I set my store up correctly.

That might have something to do with it 🤔
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Location:  Canada, Alberta
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In General, RebelliousBrick writes:
  Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?

Lol now it went up to 3
Guess some people didn't like my post
 
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Location:  Canada, Ontario
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In General, RebelliousBrick writes:
  In General, RebelliousBrick writes:
  Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?

Lol now it went up to 3
Guess some people didn't like my post

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Location:  USA, Virginia
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In General, RebelliousBrick writes:
  Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?

I'm stoplisted by one seller as a result of the variant merges :/ Except
he doesn't ship to my country
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Location:  USA, New Jersey
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In General, rickcraine writes:
  In General, RebelliousBrick writes:
  Apperantly a seller put me on their stoplist.
Is there way way to see who?

I'm stoplisted by one seller as a result of the variant merges :/ Except
he doesn't ship to my country

I believe we were stoplisted by the same seller. Let the grouchy be grouchy,
I suppose.